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Divorcing parents
My mum and dad are recently getting divorced. But I keep crying and crying and crying over it. My mum is now looking at houses to move in and I'll be with my mum for four days and my dad three days. Also, I'm going to Portugal with my nana, grandad, mum and little brother Jt. But I think I'll miss my dad, I can't stop crying so what should I do?
50 Cent fan, 11, Mersyside
I really feel for you 50 Cent fan. Parents getting a divorced is really tough and I can see why you're crying all the time. Firstly, it's okay to be upset. Your world seems as though it's getting turned upside-down and that's scary. There are a few important things to remember though. They both love you very much and they both know you love them very much. Things are going to change but in time I think you'll see that they change for the better. This will make your parents much happier people in time, which should make you happier too! Also, it's really easy to feel responsible for your parents. Try not to worry about your dad when you go to Portugal. He's old enough to look after himself and none of this is your fault. Finally, keep talking to your family. Let them know how you feel - they want to know! Talk to other friends who've been through the same thing, they'll understand how you're feeling. I hope that helps 50 Cent fan, hang in there.
Mum favours my sister!
I think that my mum likes my little sister more than me. I am 13 and my sister is 11 but whenever my sister gets into trouble for like writing on the walls, I get the blame for not looking after her. When I was 11 I never had anyone to look after me. My mum lets my sister do anything she wants and when I was 11 I was not allowed to do any of the stuff she does. It's so unfair, what can I do?
Emma, 13, via email
Sounds to me like you need to wait until you and your mum are both feeling nice and calm and then ask to have a sit-down talk with her. Explain to her how you're feeling and how you often feel side-lined.
You need to know that all parents love their children equally, even if sometimes it doesn't feel like it. I'm a first child too and my parents let my little brother and sister do loads of stuff a lot younger than I was when I was first allowed to. It seems really unfair but the fact of the matter is that parents are scared of pretty much everything.
By sending you out first, you're like the guinea pig and she's scared to let you do these things because she loves you so much. Your little sister probably gets to do all this stuff sooner, because you've shown your mum how safe it is.
I know it seems unfair but one day your sister will grow up and become one of your best mates. There'll be a lot of clothes stealing and fighting before that though, but that's part of what being a sister is!!
Make me look older
Hello. I'm 14 years old but I only look about 10 or 11 and it really gets to me sometimes. I've never had a boyfriend, never kissed a boy and never held hands with a boy either. Could you give me advice for how to dress to look older and more attractive?
Sophie, London
I look a lot younger then I actually am too Sophie and it doesn't start paying off for a long while! Try not to stress too much about not having had a boyfriend yet, it will happen so you don't need to go looking for it. Plus, boyfriends can be pretty stressful too!
As for looking older, pretty impossible unless you start buying OAP clothes and rocking a grey wig, not a hot look. Regarding looking more attractive, it becomes pretty simple if you stick to these two rules.
Firstly, remember you don't see yourself like everyone else does. You simply see an image in the mirror, whereas other people will see you as a package deal with personality thrown in. Ever had a friend you thought was really pretty because they were such a nice person? Exactly. So start by being really nice to everyone at school (although, I'm sure you are already)!
Secondly, something you also realise about so-called 'attractiveness' as you get older is that confidence is 90% of it. If you learn to like how you look and walk into a room with your back straight and your head held high, people will pick up on it. Attractiveness actually has very little to do with how you look. Hope that helps!
Friends First
I know this doesn't seem like a very big problem, but it keeps bugging me. I'm about to turn 15 and although all my mates have hobbies, like playing an instrument, bmxing and sports clubs, I have absolutely nothing to do. I'm not so great at sport and I'm scared of looking stupid or letting a team down. I'm not artistic, my parents don't really encourage me and I don't have any talents. Can you think of something and is 14 too old to start a long-term hobby?
Gemma, Northumberland
You're not alone Gemma, this is a problem I come across all the time with people your age. Two words Gemma, Chill and Out! Everyone's terrible at everything when they start and if you learn to laugh at yourself, life in general gets easier. You sound like you're being really hard on yourself but I can relate to the feeling of not having any creative talents.
Have you tried something a bit more practical like making collages or creating your own jewellery? Try scouring charity shops for beads you can pull apart or pendants you can re-use. It's bespoke, vintage and eco-friendly! Plus these are things that you can give to your friends as presents and hopefully they'll get involved too. Okay, it doesn't have the cool factor of being a rock legend, but it's certainly fun.
Oh and finally, you are NEVER too old to start anything!